For many young Catholics, the defining moment of the summer took place in Poland, where Pope Francis joined over a million teens and young adults for World Youth Day. At the very end of this celebration of faith, Pope Francis told young people that the best way to prepare for the next World Youth Day is to spend time talking to their grandparents.

This is not the first time that Pope Francis has spoken to the young about the old. He did so at his first World Youth Day in Rio de Janeiro. “At this moment, you young people and you elderly people are condemned to the same destiny: exclusion. Don’t allow yourselves to be excluded. … Make yourselves heard,” he said in 2013. “Take care of the two ends of the population: the elderly and the young; do not allow yourselves to be excluded and do not allow the elderly to be excluded.”

Speaking in Rio on the feast of Sts. Joachim and Anne, the grandparents of Jesus, Pope Francis continued with the same theme: “Children and the elderly build the future of peoples: children because they lead history forward, the elderly because they transmit the experience and wisdom of their lives. This relationship and this dialogue between generations is a treasure to be preserved and strengthened.”

Echoing these sentiments in Krakow, the Holy Father said young people must talk to their grandparents because “a young person who cannot remember is not hope for the future.”

Young people should keep in mind that the elderly are not really very different from them. Although the means of communication and other technologies have changed since they were young, deep down grandparents had similar interests to today’s youth when they were young. Ask them about their greatest challenges in school, what they did in their free time, their memories of family life or, for those who are immigrants, what it was like adapting to a new culture.

If you are facing important decisions, ask your grandparents’ advice. How did they discern what college to attend or what career to pursue? How did they know that their future spouse was the right one for them? How did they navigate the ups and downs of married life, raising children and other important relationships? What advice can they offer you about getting a job, finding an apartment or buying a car? 

Ask your grandparents about their joys, accomplishments and even their disappointments and failures. Invite them to share their values, their personal heroes, how they got through the tough times and the role of faith in their lives. Confide to them your hopes and fears, your dreams and anxieties, and ask them to pray for you — the elderly are powerful intercessors.

Pope Francis seizes every possible opportunity to encourage young people to reach out to their grandparents because, as he says, “they have the wisdom of life and can tell you things that will stir your hearts.” He speaks from personal experience, often referring to the profound influence of his grandmother on his life. “I still carry with me, always, in my breviary, the words my grandmother consigned to me in writing on the day of my priestly ordination,” he confides. “I read them often and they do me good.”

Sister Constance Veit is communications director for the Little Sisters of the Poor.

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